I had a customer with a very small bustline this weekend try on a v-neck dress and say, “I look like a boy”.  She was right.  Then she tried on a strapless, sweet-heart neckline that had some ruching at the bustline, and we didn’t even notice her bust – we just noticed how amazing she looked in the dress.  The bride, who had a bit more of a bust, tried the v-neck on and it looked completely different on her – it was adorable!  It really is all in the bust when it comes to what neckline bridesmaids should wear.  Good news, though, there isn’t just one neckline for each bust size – it’s about knowing your best options and also knowing what is universally flattering.

STRAPLESS:  I hear girls mention all the time that there are so many strapless dresses, and not enough other necklines.  The reason?  A strapless neckline is often the most universally flattering on every bustline.  A bridesmaid with a larger bustline can wear a strapless dress, but she must wear proper undergarments in order to have support.  Try a strapless bra like this one – the longer style will offer more support on a larger bust.


These are some of my favorite strapless dresses that look good on a variety of bustlines:


V-NECK: On the hanger, v-neck dresses look more conservative and covering.  On the contrary, a v-neck dress is going to show the most cleavage if you are sporting a fuller bust.  The great thing about v-necks is that you can often wear a more traditional bra.  V-necks are best on girls who have  bustline that’s still standing high, or on girls who know how to make a killer bra work.  It really depends on your comfortability with sporting cleavage, and it depends on the bride and location (very religious wedding=no boobs on display).  If you do go the v-neck route, there are some really modern styles out there right now.


HALTER:  I love halter dresses because I feel like they support my bust while slimming the area between my shoulders and neck.  Designers don’t tend to offer too many halter styles, though.  Halters are best for women who have a bust – they can sometimes make a flat chest look even more flat. 


HIGH NECK:  These are becoming more and more popular, and are a fun way to be conservative regarding the bustline.  With that said, these dresses really do look best on smaller busted ladies – a very large bust tends to overtake the silhouette of the dress.


ONE SHOULDER:  My new personal favorite for every bustline.  With some of these styles, you could even wear one (clear) bra strap for added support.  The one shoulder look flatters every bustline while offering something interesting – and something to look at other than the bust.